| Location | Barnsley |
| Age | 75 years |
| Cause of Death | Pneumonia |
| Date of Birth | 17/02/1934 |
| Date of Death | 04/06/2009 |
| Visitors | 677 since 22/06/2009 |
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Alec Butcher. Our dad died on the 4th of June 2009 following a 5 week stay in hospital.He went in hospital with a chest infection which led to other numerous problems,most of which he could not overcome.He is now at peace with our mum in Heaven.Our dad was born and raised in Penistone.He had three brothers,Donny,Milton and Brian.He met his wife(our mum)Flora at a dance in 1953 and they married the following year.They were married for 53 years until Flora sadly passed away.Together they had 5 children,James,who sadly died at birth,Carole,Adrian who sadly died in 1988,Angie and Cliff.They also had 11 grandchildren,Donna,Dean,Terri,Darryl,Chantelle,Paige,Sonia,Tony,Kelly,Alex and Lewis.Also they had 10 great grandchildren Amy,Nathan,Jasmin,James,Nathan,Casey,Ethan,Kian,Levi and Kyle.Our dad Alec spent sometime in the army based in Cyprus.After he left the army he spent the rest of his working life as a H.G.V driver up until his retirement.Unfortunately soon after he retired he suffered a stroke and for the next 10 years he was cared for by his wife(our mum)Flora and Carers. When our mum became ill and could no longer look after Dad he went into Rocklet Dene nursing home.It took him quite a while to settle there as he could be very cantankerous and used to run rings around the carers,(but he loved them really).He always thought he was the boss of the TV room and was always hugging the tv remote(if anyone wanted it he would tell thm where to go)!!! and he loved his couple of cans of Stones beer and his Jelly Mousse and his soup. Dad loved his Grandchildren,who used to visit him every week.He liked nothing better than giving them piggy back rides down the stairs,or letting them practice their hairdressing skills on him,Although his favourite hairdresser was his daughter Angie!!!. For many years Dad used to go to his Daughter Carole and Pats house for christmas dinner and used to go to the Ashfield club before dinner for a pint or two and a whiskey with Pat Tony and Dean. New year was usually spent at Cliff and Jeanetts and Angie and Marks homes.Dads hobbies included Watching football,Snooker,Westerns and Goldenballs on the tele and listening to Country music and Shirley Bassey on the radio and loved nothing better than dropping to sleep listening to his favourite radio 2!!!.He was tough as old boots was our dad.We thought we were going to lose him on numerouse occasions during the last few years but he always came bouncing back,Sadly this time he didnt.We would like to thank all carers who looked after our dad,(old and new)and the staff at Rockley Dene who cared for him during the last few years.We love and miss you Dad and hope you are happy with all your family and Mum in Heaven sleep peacefully xxxxx
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~R.I.P~ Angel x x x x
hi dad, we all love and miss you so much. i think of you everyday. It was our Paige and Kellys prom last week, you would have been so proud of them they looked absolutely stunning. Wish you and mam were here to see them but no doubt you were all watching. Give our Ade a big kiss for his birthday for me and hope you are looking after mum. Took car for MOT on Friday and it passed, nothing wrong with it at all, its a good car and ive got my name on it. I can hear you tutting haha. Love and miss you loads dad, wish you was here. All my love Angie xxxxxxx
Remembering our dear dad who past away a year ago today
Dear Dad. We think of you with love today but that is nothing new, we thought about you yesterday and the days before that too.We think of you in silence we often speak your name,but all we have are memories and your picture in a frame.Time may help to ease the pain of the loss of a Dad so dear;but only few know how much we miss him,and the loneliness of this year.We try to be brave and remember, he now is free from pain;and at the roads end,God willing,we all shall meet again.Missing you millions Dad hope you are Happy in Heaven, all our love from your Kids,Grandchildren and Greatgrandchildren.We all love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
This is what we said as we were scattering Dads Ashes with our Mum. From the tree of life,each leaf must fall.The green,the gold,the great,the small.Each one,in Gods own time he,ll call.With perfect love,he gathers all. Heavenly Father,hear our prayer .Guide our Dad,with tender care.Dear shepherd,dont leave him alone.Love him in Heaven,as we did at home. May the angels come to greet you,May they speed you to paradise,May our mum and ade,hold you in their arms,May you have eternal life. Goodnight,Godbless Dad,safe journey,we love you xxxxxx

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